Until recently, we had been making really good progress on reducing our debt, increasing our net wealth and forming some sort of financial security for ourselves. We were ahead on our mortgage payments, had zero credit card debt and the margin loans were under control, despite the financial crisis.
However, we slipped. Usually, we get large commission payments about once a quarter. We try to save a lot of this and spend a little. Then, some of the saved amount is used to cover living expense for the next few months until the next large commission payment is received. Except that this time we decided to put in some nice decking around the house. Nothing too extravagant, just to replace the concrete backyard that we currently have. Also, we had a few plants put in and some seats. Total cost for all this work was $25k (including pulling out a really big old tree). The problem is that we also spent a fair bit on my wifes 40th birthday, had a few other bills and, to cap it all off, received about 2/3rds of the commission we thought we would get. In other words we got carried away, back to our old habits.
This, of course, means that we are now in a little of trouble financially for the next few months. Things are going to be tight. Luckily we have a little cash put aside (the emergency fund), which we could draw on, so we won't go hungry.
Whats the solution? As my grandmother used to say, pick yourself up and dust yourself off. Whats done is done and whats spent is spent. We can only look forward now and remember to SAVE THE NEXT COMMISSION!
Luckily I'm not one for giving others advice. :)